Tips and Suggestions
- Check in with yourself–how are you feeling and what do you need to help this student?
- Keep safety (yours and that of those around you) in mind. If there is risk of imminent danger, contact 911 or UPD (x5222).
- Complete available mental health trainings (i.e. QPR, Mental Health First Aid) to help with comfort around difficulty topics and build active listening skills.
- Be proactive and check in with students early on.
- Make time and space available to speak to students directly.
- Act from a place of empathy and concern rather than judgment or dismissiveness.
- Avoid the tendency to “fix” everything, provide false reassurance, or make promises you can’t keep.
- Ask about harm to self or others directly.
- Ensure that students know how to access identified resources.
- Document interactions with distressed students–consider issuing an early alert through EAB Navigate.
- Ask for additional help if needed, including calling Counseling Services for consultation.
- Talk to others who may be able to support you such as your supervisor or department chair.
- Connect with the Dean of Students.
- Allow yourself a minute to regroup after a challenging experience. Take a deep breath, relax your forehead, unclench your jaw, and/or drop your shoulders.
NOTE: If a student is at immediate risk to self or others, call UPD at x5222 or dial 911.